i would try it
i need a buddylist, but i dont know who i do it
an idea for the mysql database
id| a | b |aktive (friendship)
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1 |name1|name2| 0
2 |name2|name3| 1
0=the friendship wait for appliy
1=the friendship is applied and the users are on the buddy list
User a (example. name1) have a friendship with User b (name2)"applies", he must still confirm .
german
Man könnte auch noch einbauen das man die freundschft kündigen kann, und man somit auf der buddliste seines "ex" freundes verschwindet.
Sry for my bad english