Ok so...
The template Im using is this:
http://www.4homepages.de/forum/index.php?topic=18761.0
The appid key and connections are changed on the files because they´re supposed to be secret... Im just having this little issue that bothers me is the domain..im using my website and My website is www.nonsenseinc.org but what I want people to connect too is to nonsenseinc.org/gallery because thats where the images are 
in your template folder, the user_loginform.html and user_logininfo.html files...
Place the login button AFTER the last </ul> in those files (it did not mess anything up in the template on my computer)
<fb:login-button size="small" length="long" autologoutlink="true" perms="email,user_website,publish_stream"></fb:login-button>
just put in the code above and not the other tags around it in my original post.
The code that I told you to place in the header file at the end, the <div id="fb-root"> code, place that code in your header.html file after the <div id="container">
for the app stuff, yes, do not share that info, I just noticed when I click on the login, it was trying to use the garbled info for the login and not using the app-id.
You can still use and run an app of facebook, you just can not get it published in their directory of apps until you have enough people using it.
The domain for your app would be nonsenseinc.org and the connect url on your facebook app would be
http://www.nonsenseinc.org/gallery/ (notice the last slash, important)